Simfeel Kabisa- Ben Pol speaks on his broken relationship with Anerlisa Muigai ahead of their divorce (Video)

Tanzanian hitmaker and RnB singer Bernard Paul Mnyang’anga alias Ben Pol has finally opened up on his break up with Keroche heiress Anerlisa Muigai.


Speaking during an interview with Skywalker pol said that their relationship with Anerlisa was slowly dying, adding it was on and off despite having had a church wedding.


“It’s true I filed for Divorce, lakini process bado inaendelea. Divorce inachukua time, so kwa hiyo kisheria bado tumefungwa pamoja lakini kihisia sidhani kama kuna mmoja anataka kuwa na mwenzake” said Ben Pol.


“…Alinitumia kabisa makaratasi ya wana sheria kuhusu separation and I was scared…hapo vitu vilikuwa vimeharibika sana. Baadaye vitu vikarudi kutoka September mpaka October ndo tukawa tumerudi. Vitu vikaenda vizuri mpka mwezi wa pili mwaka huu February ndio vitu vikapasuka tena.


I did my best hata muda ukirudi nyuma, ningefanya vile vile, hamna kitu ambacho ningerekebisha, kwa hiyo kama vitu havijaenda ni mipango ya mungu tu na huwezi badilisha”.


Whatever happened in the two years, ilikuwa tu imepangwa na Mungu, maana kila mtu alikuwa alivyo na familia zilikuwa zinatusapoti”


Ben also said that the letter he received from Anerlisa’s lawyers to bar him from discussing his personal life in the public was unreasonable, adding that the divorce period was a very difficult time in his life.


“Sio kwamba nilikuwa naomba kwa Mwanamke talaka bali ni kufungua shauri kwamba hii ndoa hainifai tena”


“Kipindi hicho kilikuwa kigumu sana…mpaka majira ya siku yalibadilika, yaanni kuna wakati nilikuwa naamka saa kumi na moja join ndo nakunywa breakfast, na kula lunch saa tatu usiku, dinner saa tisa Usiku, nalala sa kumi na moja. Lakini I did a lot of work to be Okay. ..I was invested kweli kwenye mapenzi and I gave my all, saying this I my wife so went thing went south I was hurt”.


The hitmaker would later opt for an online session to heal from their nasty break up with Anerlisa.


“Kwa saa hivi mimi namuombea tu heri lakini kusema ati namzimia, hapana hakuna kitu kinaweza kutokea kati yangu mimi na yeye.
Simfeel kabisa, unfortunately, sidhani kama ni kosa, huo ndo ukweli wangu” said Ben Pol.


He however noted that his biggest regret was ignoring his red alerts in the relationship until it got too late to revert back.


“My biggest regret was ignoring the signals in the relationship…I’m a very prayerful person…kulikuwa na signals nyingi lakini nilikuwa na skip…niliignore signals muda mrefu sana…labda hata hatungefunga ndoa mwaka jana. Kama ningekuwa nasikiza signals labda things could not have gone this way. The thing I regret is that there signal all over but I ignored them.” said Pol.


He also said that the wedding was a secret and private one with no family member from Anerlisa’s side attending.


“There were mixed feelings about the wedding being private and her parents did not come because that border were closed at that time”.

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